Showing posts with label Dalai Lama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dalai Lama. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 2, 2016

day65: cultivate a meditation habit


It feels good. 
Kinda like when you have to shut your computer down, just sometimes when it goes crazy, you just shut it down and when you turn it on, it’s okay again. That’s what meditation is to me. 
 Ellen DeGeneres

The benefits of meditation are well documented. 
It appears that meditation is the wonder drug, the cure all for all that ails us, and yet for many, it is still a foreign concept. 
We seem more willing to fill our bodies with chemicals in the form of pills, than to sit quietly and breathe?!?! 
What's that about??? 

I wish I had had a meditation practice when you were young, so you would have thought of it as a normal part of a routine day. Even now I wish my meditation practice was as routine for me as brushing my teeth or making my morning cup of coffee. 

But this is all a work is progress and the more I weave meditation into my every day the more I experience its benefits.  And the more I recognize the benefits the more I make sure that I do it,  as I said, a work is progress.


So for today I would like you to consider weaving meditation into your every day. Start small.  
I have discovered this app called 'headspace' which has really helped me to make meditating a daily practice.  The app also presents meditation as a way to give your head some more space!!! 
Also, as you both know, I love the guided meditations from meditation oasis.  You could see if there is a meditation club or group at your school, meditating with a group begins different benefits and to have the support of a community can help you make sure that are you do it.  

There are so many, many options and aids to help one cultivate a meditation practice and I am here today to encourage you to do it!! 

In fact, there is the idea that if you do something for a certain amount of days, 
the time ranges between 21 days to 100 days or more. 
But for today's purposes lets go with 21 days, less then a month, 3 weeks in fact, 
and for the next 21 days, I challenge you both to meditate.  As I said before, start small, it could be for 10 minutes a day, you could use an app, or join a club or group, you could meditate inside or outside, there is a walking meditation, whatever works for you. You both do it for 21 days straight, and I will do it too (remember how I mentioned that my meditation practice is a work in progress.) And if we start tomorrow, the 21 days will bring us to Thanksgiving and we can celebrate in Portsmouth.  
so, what do you think,  you in??? 
love you both so, mom

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Wednesday, July 6, 2016

may this dress remind us to meditate and be kind!!! XXX

'you are heading for a land of sunshine and relaxation ...' mixed media collage
My religion is very simple. 
My religion is kindness. 

Dalai Lama


and in honor of his Holiness's birthday, take some time to meditate ... XXX




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Tuesday, April 26, 2016

May this dress help us become catalysts of change ....







food for thought ... 
from the Dalai Lama

THE PARADOX OF OUR TIMES
Is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers
Wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints
We spend more, but we have less.


We have bigger houses, but smaller families
More conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees, but less sense
More knowledge, but less judgement
More experts, but more problems
More medicines, but less wellness.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often
We have learnt how to make a living, but not a life.
We have added years to life, but not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back
But have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbour.
We have conquered outer space, but not inner space.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted our soul.
We've split the atom, but not our prejudice.
We've higher incomes, but lower morals.
We've become long on quantity but short on quality.

These are the times of tall men, and short character;
Steep profits, and shallow relationships.
These are the times of world peace, but domestic warfare,
More leisure, but less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition.

These are the days of two incomes, but more divorces;
Of fancier houses, but broken homes.
It is a time when there is much in the show window, and nothing in the stockroom.

A time when technology can bring this letter to you,

And a time when you can choose,

Either to make a difference .... or just hit, delete.
- His Holiness the Dalai Lama
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Wednesday, October 16, 2013

may this dress help you practice compassion ~

compassion for others,  but especially for yourself ~ 
today, practice self-compassion!


“Compassion is not religious business,
it is human business, 
it is not luxury, 
it is essential for our 
own peace and mental stability, 
it is essential for human survival.”

Dalai Lama  
(Head of the Dge-lugs-pa order of Tibetan Buddhists, 1989 Nobel Peace Prize, b.1935)